Let’s get one thing straight: your good looks will only take you so far with the woman of your dreams. If you want to appear irresistible to the female sex then you have to have more than just a handsome face and good body. Many men try to build on things they usually can’t change like their jobs or houses. Instead, why not try and get the best out of what you already have? Here’s a list of 10 things that you can do to grab the attention of even the hardest woman to get!
1. ALWAYS SMELL GOOD
Who doesn’t like to spend time with a person who smells appealing? It’s always wise to dab a couple of drops of cologne or men’s perfume after you apply body spray. Take care not to overdo it. Stick to the old sayings, “Less is more”, and “Something is better than nothing.”
2. HUMOR IS GOOD
Relationship experts often say that laughter is key. Many-a-times a girl falls for a guy simply because he can make her smile. Also, humor helps keep the mood light and to break the ice. Here again, don’t overdo it; you want her to think you are humorous, not a full-on clown.
3. TALK SMART, SOUND INTERESTING
No, there’s no need to brush up on your general knowledge before you go to meet her. Just talk about things you like and know quite a lot about, and involve her by asking her opinion during the conversation. However, over-talking or obsessing over a specific topic might make you sound ‘geeky.’ So, try to keep the conversation interesting by trying to learn about things she likes to talk about too. Try to relate to her and explore more about things that you have in common.
4. TRY TO BE CHIC
Holding the door open for her, pulling out her chair when she sits, asking her opinion while ordering, paying the bill, dropping her off to her door and so on are etiquettes that are worth having. Apart from that, hold your class by being patient and calm throughout any conversation and, most definitely, dress with care and be punctual. Take care of the little things for the big success.
5. ACT CONFIDENT
We know it’s hard to act assured when the girl you think ‘is out of your league’ stands in front of you. Talking about things you know more about or taking her to a restaurant you are familiar with can help put some confidence back in you. Be self-assured; women like men who are sure of what they want and can confidently go ahead and get it.
6. TAKE IT SLOW
It’s crucial that you understand her thoughts while you are conversing, because whether a woman likes it slow or fast is shown through her subtle hints and words while she’s talking. Usually, women like the men to make the first move, but they also appreciate the mystery. So, let her lead the way; just remember to get to the door on time.
7. SHOW HER RESPECT
While with her, demonstrate your ability to allow her her own space and time to open up. Ask and respect her opinions and involve her in any decision, small or big, you take.
8. PAY ATTENTION TO HER
It’s important to pay attention to her, but do not assert yourself too much; she might get uncomfortable. Most importantly, be genuine. Also, it’s always advisable to give her a compliment or two to make her feel special.
9. ROMANCE IS OH-SO-IMPORTANT
And this is a fact that has been proven time and again. Romance does not necessarily mean touching her or talking about love all the time. It is also the cute, cuddly things you do now and then, like holding her hand, leaving her sweet, short messages or surprising her with flowers or perfume on special occasions. Remember, a romantic person has more chance of winning a girl’s heart than one with good looks, but stiff personality.
10. BE A LITTLE UNPREDICTABLE
You will hardly find a girl who doesn’t like romantic and cute surprises. It is always a good idea to surprise her when she’s least expecting it, like returning home early from an overnight trip just to take her out on a date or just suddenly planning a long drive to the beach. You must, of course, take care of her comfort zone, but going the extra mile never hurt anyone.
So, the next time you are thinking of impressing a girl you really like try out these tips and you’ll surely be a winner.